Friday 2 September 2022

The Relationship Rat Race Part 1

 



Ask anyone I know and they will tell you I could write  a book about my chronicles on dating and relationships. 


I’ve been so confused about romantic relationship and how we sail through them without loosing our minds 


My man is my partner in everything, for every purpose in my life he plays a part in building a strong foundation , he lifts me when I’m low, he raises me when I’m high, he helps me understand his world,  his life his feelings, and helps to create a safe place for us to grow and flourish. 


In so many past relationships I literally focused on what I thought I wanted. I wanted to mirror others people relationships based on what I thought was the norm. I used comparisons, searched high & low for couple goals on social media and listen to every relationship podcast I could find.


My thoughts on what a relationship needed to bind it together was built on everyone else’s idea and not my own. I felt like I was going around and around in circle with one failed relationship after another believing i was in capable of loving again. 


My attitude towards dating has changed, I choose to be bold, I say what I  want and if it no longer suits I get out, I armour my body with iron clad protection of fear of damaging my beating organ. I laugh hard but I always have the last laugh. 





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